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SUMMARY:Murray Method Level III Class
DESCRIPTION:Note: Completion of a certified MM Level II class is prerequisite \n\n\nLevel III (DECISION TIME) provides further discussion of unhealthy systems; expansion of understanding addictions and dysfunctional behaviors; and addresses both individual and relationship issues. Emphasis is placed on enabling persons to move out of a “stuck” position and actively apply new methods of healthy behaviors – personally and in their relationships. \nContent: \n\nReview of Levels I and II in which participants relate any questions or area which are unclear.\nExpands the understanding of our Baseline for Normal and how to create a healthy\, new Baseline\nExplanation regarding the genesis of neural pathways\, and how they can be changed\nCausations and Alternatives for Addictions and Dysfunctional Behaviors are illustrated and demonstrate the necessity of all areas being addressed before sobriety can be attained and maintained\nAn expansion of the Wounded Relationship is given which lists the primary needs of both the child and the adult\nDecision Time offers a step-by-step program to enable options for persons stuck in unhealthy\, destructive systems and relationships\nNegotiables and Non-Negotiables are demonstrated through role-play regarding how to evaluate the potential of long-term relationships and activities\nFields as Relationships are shown by illustrations correlating relationship types and various landscapes; students are provided with outlines regarding how to apply the instruments gained thus far in the Method in the preparation and maintenance of healthy relationship\n\n5 days\, 9a – 5p\, plus homework; attendance required at all sessions. \n\n\n 
URL:https://marriagewell.org/event/murray-method-level-iii-class/
LOCATION:Crosspointe Church Ventura\, 5415 Ralston St\,\, Ventura\, CA\, 93003\, United States
ORGANIZER;CN="MarriageWell":MAILTO:info@marriagewell.org
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SUMMARY:Murray Method Level I Class
DESCRIPTION:Level I Overview: \nLevel I highlights awareness and understanding regarding the development of each individual’s personal growth and behavior as determined by his/her innate strengths\, life experiences\, family influences and environment. \nContent: \n\nEmphasis is placed on Balance in Health – Physically\, Emotionally\, Intellectually and Spiritually\, and in Relationships\nThe “Bricks of Survival” are presented as each individual’s most basic needs – a foundation upon which all of one’s personal experiences and growth are based\nThe “Circles of Intimacy\, Responsibility and Impact” are introduced which provide a format for identifying priorities and boundaries in relationships and activities\nA “Trauma Egg” is created by each participant as a visual record of painful and difficult issues in their life\n\nEach participant: \n\nDraws a representation of their pain\nDiscusses their defense mechanisms as a child and as an adult and draws these defenses\nDiscloses how they contribute to dysfunction in relationships; admits when they have moved from “victim to victimizer” – when they are aggressive and passive-aggressive\, and draws these behaviors\nFocuses on their natural talents and abilities – on who they were designed to be\nLearns how to become a Healthy Balanced Person – a combination of Physical\, Emotional\, Intellectual and Spiritual including natural talents and abilities – plus empathy\, appropriate boundaries and the capacity for healthy relationships\nBegins to realize that one cannot experience intimacy with another person (or even God) until they are intimate with and know and understand themselves\n\nCourse duration:  \n4 days\, 28 hours (9a – 5p)\, plus homework; attendance required at all sessions. Price includes Cont’l bkfst & lunch each day. \nClass Format:  \nClasses are led each day by Marilyn Murray. \nThe sessions will be conducted with time devoted to didactic instruction and to experiential work. \nThe Murray Method program originated to help you become who you were designed to be… a Healthy Balanced Person – Emotionally\, Intellectually\, Spiritually\, and Physically. The Murray Method is not intended to replace your personal therapy.
URL:https://marriagewell.org/event/murray-method-level-i-class/
LOCATION:Crosspointe Church Ventura\, 5415 Ralston St\,\, Ventura\, CA\, 93003\, United States
ORGANIZER;CN="MarriageWell":MAILTO:info@marriagewell.org
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SUMMARY:Murray Method Level II Class
DESCRIPTION:Note: Completion of a certified MM Level I class is prerequisite. \nLevel II highlights Instruments for Change and stresses the importance of individual responsibility for one’s own actions with emphasis on an understanding of healthy and unhealthy behaviors.  Participants are introduced to many therapeutic instruments which can be immediately applicable personally\, professionally and in their relationships. \nInstructor:  Marilyn Murray \nContent: \n\nCongruency between stated Values and Behaviors is addressed with participants challenged to examine their personal authenticity in these areas; instruments are provided to enable this evaluation\nThe Past and Present Pool of Pain presents an understanding of why persons over-react to situations by showing the consequences of suppressed emotions and the correlation of this suppression with present-day reactions\nThe Circles of Intimacy are revisited with interactive scenarios\nRoots provides an understanding of the definition of: “Trauma\,” “Abuse\,” “Deprivation\,” and “Neglect” and the resulting emotions; a diagram visualizes these Roots as the fuel which causes the flames of Anger\, Resentment\, Shame\, Fear\, Pain\, etc.\nThe I Am Bad diagram illustrates four general responses to the deeply internalized belief that “I am defective and not valuable;” this destructive mantra creates unhealthy behavior of varying degrees\nThe Healthy Balanced Person is diagramed with interactive role-play\nThe positives and negatives of remaining a: Victim/Child\, Co-Dependent\, Victimizer\, and a Healthy Balance Person are investigated\nRecognizing\, deleting and replacing overt and covert internal destructive Tapes which influence behavior and beliefs\nReasons for the inability to give up Co-Dependency are presented and discussed\nThe Wounded Relationships” instrument is illustrated as an example of how persons attempt to use and make other persons responsible for filling their own un-met childhood needs and the dysfunction that results from this destructive behavior\nHealthy and Unhealthy Systems are diagramed\, and information provided to enable participants to analyze and determine the status of various systems (family of origin\, present family\, work\, school\, etc.)\nHow to Handle a Feeling (with list of emotions by category) and Five Ways to Say “Yes” and “No” are presented\nFive Stages of Recovery are introduced with emphasis on methods to release anger in a healthy manner without becoming a victimizer\, and how to forgive by separating the person from the deed.\nThe Safety Circle and the Relationship Playing Field are presented with role-play addressing how to avoid becoming passive-aggressive\, aggressive and/or violent\nAn understanding one’s own Triggers is developed by addressing past trauma\, abuse and deprivation and how the resulting emotions affect and disrupt present-day behavior\nA discernment of the definition of Wisdom\, and also of inner Joy are developed\nParticipants are challenged to experience a paradigm shift toward balanced health – personally\, professionally and in their relationships – and to be congruent with their words and behaviors\n\nCourse duration:  \n8 consecutive days\, 56 hours\, plus homework; attendance required at all sessions. 9a – 5p daily
URL:https://marriagewell.org/event/murray-method-level-ii-class/
LOCATION:Crosspointe Church Ventura\, 5415 Ralston St\,\, Ventura\, CA\, 93003\, United States
ORGANIZER;CN="MarriageWell":MAILTO:info@marriagewell.org
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SUMMARY:Murray Method Level I Class
DESCRIPTION:Level I Overview: \nLevel I highlights awareness and understanding regarding the development of each individual’s personal growth and behavior as determined by his/her innate strengths\, life experiences\, family influences and environment. \nContent: \n\nEmphasis is placed on Balance in Health – Physically\, Emotionally\, Intellectually and Spiritually\, and in Relationships\nThe “Bricks of Survival” are presented as each individual’s most basic needs – a foundation upon which all of one’s personal experiences and growth are based\nThe “Circles of Intimacy\, Responsibility and Impact” are introduced which provide a format for identifying priorities and boundaries in relationships and activities\nA “Trauma Egg” is created by each participant as a visual record of painful and difficult issues in their life\n\nEach participant: \n\nDraws a representation of their pain\nDiscusses their defense mechanisms as a child and as an adult and draws these defenses\nDiscloses how they contribute to dysfunction in relationships; admits when they have moved from “victim to victimizer” – when they are aggressive and passive-aggressive\, and draws these behaviors\nFocuses on their natural talents and abilities – on who they were designed to be\nLearns how to become a Healthy Balanced Person – a combination of Physical\, Emotional\, Intellectual and Spiritual including natural talents and abilities – plus empathy\, appropriate boundaries and the capacity for healthy relationships\nBegins to realize that one cannot experience intimacy with another person (or even God) until they are intimate with and know and understand themselves\n\nCourse duration:  \n4 days\, 28 hours (9a – 5p)\, plus homework; attendance required at all sessions. Price includes Cont’l bkfst & lunch each day. \nClass Format:  \nClasses will be live each day with Murray Method Instructors utilizing recently taped video content by Marilyn Murray. \nThe sessions will be conducted with time devoted to didactic instruction and to experiential work. \nThe Murray Method program originated to help you become who you were designed to be… a Healthy Balanced Person – Emotionally\, Intellectually\, Spiritually\, and Physically. The Murray Method is not intended to replace your personal therapy.  \n 
URL:https://marriagewell.org/event/murray-method-level-i/
LOCATION:Crosspointe Church Ventura\, 5415 Ralston St\,\, Ventura\, CA\, 93003\, United States
ORGANIZER;CN="MarriageWell":MAILTO:info@marriagewell.org
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SUMMARY:Love & Laughter - Comedy Date Night Ventura
DESCRIPTION:Sat. Feb 12 Comedy Date Night is the hit of Ventura County and MarriageWell delivers great fun.  Grab your Valentine and join us for another night of hilarious CLEAN comedy at its best with an ALL-STAR lineup. Celebrate Valentines with a memorable night of Love\, Music & Laughter.  LIVE Jazz/Blues Music preshow. Take a Date Night Selfie at our Photo Booth.  Space is limited\, get your tickets NOW.
URL:https://marriagewell.org/event/comedy-date-night-9/
LOCATION:Crosspointe Church Ventura\, 5415 Ralston St\,\, Ventura\, CA\, 93003\, United States
ORGANIZER;CN="MarriageWell":MAILTO:info@marriagewell.org
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