MarriageWell Relationship CheckUp
2025-02-13 18:00 - 2027-01-31 19:00 (America/Los_Angeles) | MarriageWell Coaching Center, 534 High Point Dr., Ventura, CA, 93003, United States
Have you had your Relationship CheckUp? We can help you get a gauge on how you’re doing and more importantly, help you see your strengths and growth areas. Our Relationship CheckUp process is like no other. We’ve partnered with the premier relationship assessment (Prepare-Enrich) and give you a session with one of our MarriageWell Relationship Coaches to interpret the results and work on a game-plan to improve your growth areas.
What is the Couple Checkup?
The Couple Checkup is an online assessment tool designed to identify the unique relationship strengths and growth areas of dating, engaged, or married couples. Couples receive a 10 page report on their relationship along with one session with a MarriageWell Relationship Coach to go over the results. Research has shown this process improves relationships by stimulating honest dialogue, increasing understanding, and empowering couples.
Why take the Couple Checkup?
The Couple Checkup will help couples discover their relationship strengths. Strengths are what enable couples to enjoy and continue developing a healthy relationship. It will also help identify issues that are threatening the vitality of their relationship and may need to be addressed. Your session with a Relationship Coach can help you build on those strengths and address your growth areas.
Who can take the Couple Checkup?
The Couple Checkup can be taken by couples that are dating, engaged, or married. It is custom designed for any couple desiring to enrich their relationship.
Will the Couple Checkup be relevant for every couple?
After indicating the stage of their relationship, the Couple Checkup will automatically select applicable questions, making the assessment valuable and relevant, as it is tailored to each couple’s relationship stage and structure.
How long does the assessment take?
Approximately 25-40 minutes. The assessment is approx. 150 questions that can easily be answered via computer, smart phone or tablet.
How long does it take to receive the Couple Checkup report?
As soon as both partners have completed their portions of the Couple Checkup, a MarriageWell Relationship Coach will contact you within 48 hrs to schedule your results session.
What feedback does the couple receive?
Each couple gets personal attention to review the results with a Relationship Coach in a 75 min. session. Each couple also receives a copy of their 15-20 page report with their results broken down into relational categories.
What topics are covered in the Couple Checkup?
Twenty important relationship areas are explored, including but not limited to:

Communication
Conflict Resolution
Financial Management
Relationship Roles
Affection and Sexual Relationship
Couple Closeness and Flexibility
Family Closeness and Flexibility
Personality
Family of Origin

Is the Couple Checkup scientifically accurate?
The Couple Checkup is very accurate and is based on the highly respected PREPARE/ENRICH Assessment. The Couple Checkup has high levels of validity and reliability.
What if a couple would like additional support with relationship problems?
If a couple would like additional support with their growth areas, MarriageWell can provide an ongoing coaching to assist (additional cost).
What’s the cost of a Couple Checkup + Relationship Coach session?
$125

Marriage TOOLS Session - The CONFLICT Cycle
2026-01-01 18:00 - 2030-07-03 19:00
In this 75 min. session we will teach you a tool that helps you identify why you get into conflict, what’s below the surface of every conflict and most importantly, we’ll teach you how to get out of the conflict cycle. This is a working session. Each couple will do 20 min of rework and walk away with a map of your specific conflict cycle.
There is a destructive cycle that destroys relationships and at some point all couples engage in this cycle. Dr. Gary Smalley goes as far as to call this cycle the #1 cause of divorce.
Couples must recognize what they are doing to perpetuate conflict in their marriage. Both husband and wife have core fears, or “fear buttons” that both parties are completely unaware of. When these buttons get pushed in conflict they drive a reaction, this reaction will usually trigger the others fear button and the cycle begins. Left unchecked, couples can get stuck spinning in this unpleasant cycle.
In this interactive session, you will

Understand how this cycle begins and perpetuates
Identify the husbands fear buttons and reactions
Identify the wives fear buttons and reactions
Learn how our buttons and reactions affect each other and get us STUCK in this conflict cycle
Learn how to get out of the cycle and set ourselves up for deeper work to receive healing in those fear areas of our lives

** Once you make this purchase, MarriageWell will contact you to schedule your session.

Murray Method Level I Class - Becoming who you were created to be
2026-09-04 09:00 - 2026-09-07 17:00
~ PATH TO AWARENESS ~
Level I Overview:
Begin the journey by uncovering hidden patterns and gaining a deeper understanding of yourself and your experiences. Awareness is the first step toward transformation.
Content:

Emphasis is placed on Balance in Health – Physically, Intellectually, Emotionally and Spiritually, and in Relationships
The “Bricks of Survival” are presented as each individual’s most basic needs – a foundation upon which all of one’s personal experiences and growth are based
The “Circles of Intimacy, Responsibility and Impact” are introduced which provide a format for identifying priorities and boundaries in relationships and activities
A “Trauma Egg®” is created by each participant as a visual record of painful and difficult issues in their life

Each participant:

Draws a representation of their life’s painful experiences
Discusses their defense mechanisms as a child and as an adult and draws these defenses
Discloses how they contribute to dysfunction in relationships; admits when they have moved from “victim to victimizer” – when they are aggressive and passive-aggressive, and draws these behaviors
Focuses on their natural talents and abilities – on who they were designed to be
Learns how to become a Healthy Balanced Person – a combination of Physical, Emotional, Intellectual and Spiritual including natural talents and abilities – plus empathy, appropriate boundaries and the capacity for healthy relationships
Begins to realize that one cannot experience intimacy with another person (or even God) until they are intimate with and know and understand themselves

Course duration:
4 days, 28 hours (9a – 5p), plus homework; attendance required at all sessions. Price includes all materials, Cont’l bkfst & lunch each day.
Class Format:
Classes are led each day by Certified Murray Method instructors and husband/wife team Al & Leticia Perez.
The sessions will be conducted with time devoted to didactic instruction and to experiential work. Class is open to men, women and couples.
The Murray Method program originated to help you become who you were designed to be… a Healthy Balanced Person – Emotionally, Intellectually, Spiritually, and Physically. The Murray Method is not intended to replace your personal therapy.
